We have the same outlook on parenting and family.It almost didn't make sense to marry anyone else. We have so much in common: love the outdoors, hiking, camping, climbing, communal living, green living, traveling.
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He enjoys yard work, I enjoy laundry and cooking. I live a life on call, and he has an extremely flexible schedule. We got to have the most adorable children together and know that they would be raised in a loving environment. He had amazing health insurance and I have chronic autoimmune disorders. He was worried someone would find out he was gay because he had been single for almost his entire life, He was a marine and his sexual preferences would not go over well. It helped my career or at least from my perception it did. He was everything I was looking for in a man. One day we started joking that we should get married and over time it started sounding better and better for both of us. And he didn't think it could happen for him because he is gay and didn't want to marry a woman and have a family while lying to her and cheating on her with men, and also didn't want a relationship or family with another man. (I am kind of a tiny woman, and it was easy for my ex to throw me around.) I really didn't have any interest in pursuing a romantic relationship. I had major trust issues especially with men and feared it would only be a matter of time before I found myself in a relationship again where a man had complete control over me and made me afraid for my life. I didn't think it could ever happen for me because I was (and still am) pretty scarred from my lengthy abusive relationship. We both knew we wanted a family in the future and a true partnership, someone to take on the world with. WALL OF TEXT AHEAD.some rambling.TLDR - lots of reasons! Thank you so much for the questions - If you have more.you can still AMA! Doesn't even have to be about my marriage/family I guess but I am itching to talk about it!ĮDIT - Heading to bed now, if there are any more questions I will get to them when I can tomorrow.
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I almost never get to talk about the reality of my marriage and it is eating at me a little bit so PLEASE feel free to ASK ME ANYTHING about anything. My closest girlfriend doesn't even know (because she has a big mouth and she knows it!! but I love her) None of our colleagues know, a great deal of our friends have no idea, our extended families don't know. Also apparently Matthews brothers can't be trusted so they don't know either. His mother (His father was extremely conservative and was terminally ill at the time of our wedding so we didn't tell him. A few people DO know about the reality of our relationship, including: We do not have relationships outside of our marriage but do have sex with other people. For numerous reasons we decided to marry (if you want to know more about this just ask I don't want to bore your but it really was a good deal for both of us.) He stays in the closet to the vast majority of our friends/family and we actually really enjoy playing the part of over-the-top lovebirds. Matthew helped me find the confidence to leave the relationship and also moved with me to another state to escape it all.
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I, at the time, was involved in a very abusive relationship, both mentally and physically. “Matthew” and I were great friends before we were married, he came out to me and spent a few years struggling with his feelings (The way he put it, “Dreaming of that white picket fence family and a beautiful wife to make all of his friends Jealous but lusting after men.”). We are very happily married, with two beautiful children and live in a house with 4 other men.